YES to that!

CC said : I think we should embrace our emotions rather than trying so hard to control it.

totally agree!!!!

CC: Yup, ultimately, we shape most part of it.

CC: Thanks for your compliments. I am on a learning curve too as I just got mine about 2 months ago. I think experiment is the key, we all learn through trials and errors.

you’ve got Nice and interesting site.

CC: Hello Cora, glad to see you here.

CC: Yippee! Hope to see you more often then!

CC: Thank you HLiza, I hope I didn’t make you sad.

Great photo. Depicts a lone ranger in a vast opening. I would be darn lonely if I’m living in that house.

CC: I agree. That’s actually an empty house sitting on a hill by a main road. It’s been classified as a heritage building and can’t be demolished. It’s sitting on a premier land in a highly sought after area. The owner has no choice but to continue paying maintenance for it. It looks rather sad at it’s current state. I often stroll by and think of the glorious day it once had.

love your photo! gosh, the color blue. love it!

CC: That blue color is quite special, haven’t seen that for quite some time. Perhaps an indication of the spring weather.

CC: Thank you Weilian.

CC: That quite true. I tend to be more expressive when I’m in a melancholy mood.

CC: Embracing sorrow doesn’t mean wallowing in it, but rather accepting it as part of growing up, an experience in life.

CC: For the part that’s out of our control, we can still choose to accept it and move on or to wallow in distress.

again, ur title reminded me of SL: chik mok lau sing guan. (lonely meteor)…

When we say we are the owners of our destiny,
does it include those bleak moments in life?

my answer is yes to both!

but then we cant control our emotions, they just pop up anytime, anywhere.

CC: You’re really her super fan! I think we should embrace our emotions rather than trying so hard to control it.

CC: Good choice!

CC: Indeed!!!

CC: Thanks.

CC: Glad you do. I believe everything happen for a reason. Good or bad, we all walk away with enlightenment.

Nice pic, very calming…..

CC: I agree. We can learn from it.

running away never solves anything, but only creates a feeling of regret later.

sooner or later, we all have to face up to our demons and learn to exorcise them before we can truly move on in our lives…

CC: It’s not an easy task, I’m still learning.

CC: Thank you very much!

Sorrow is part of being human.

CC: Strangely, those seemingly bleak moments do turn into fond memories as time goes by. Those are the moments we will remember, not for its sorrow, but the good things we take away from it.

CC: Thanks girl!!

CC: No kidding! I should blog about it some time. LOL

CC: Thanks. Just like ying and yang, the balance of life.

CC: Yes it is.

CC: I like the way you put it.

CC: Thanks. Yup, it’s important to find an outlet to express ourselves.

CC: Yes, I do believe things happen for a reason, and if it’s not of our choice, we can still have make the best out of it.

=)

and very true, if there’s no sorrow, how can we learn to feel joy? ^^

CC: Sorrow is like an ugly scar, it reminds us the turbulence we’ve been through and teach use to appreciate what we have.

sorrow and happiness like hope and despair will only make us more humane

CC: Right, being perfect is not that perfect afterall.

CC: Good to know you agree.

so i think even if they’re bleak moments,
i still choose to have them.
in memory…

CC: You’re right, without the past, we’ll be an empty shells. Good and bad, they are all part of who we are.

CC: Thanks!

but can i?

CC: Yes you can, if you want to.

CC: Thanks!

CC: Me too. It’s mesmerizing.

CC: Well, regrets, that’s part of life too.

Btw i really like the picture. =)

CC: Thanks. You’re right, sometimes we just lack the courage to take that final step. In between hesitations and reconsideration, chances slip through our grasps.

CC: Thanks!